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Corset Belt: My wife had a cesarean section and she only used it for a few days.

Clothing: I don’t recommend it here. Just buy it according to the style you like. Wash it several times in advance and expose it to the sun. As a reminder, you can prepare 4-5 sets of clothes. I have enough to change when I go back to the south and it is humid, so I am prepared, especially in winter. Sometimes the diapers are not wrapped properly, and they have to be changed again when they get wet.

Quilt: soft and warm. I bought 4 pieces and they can also be used as small quilts.

Bottle: The baby sucks very well as soon as he uses the Pigeon one, he doesn’t have gas, and he goes to sleep after burping after the milk. So I bought three. Mothers who have a lot of milk can also buy milk storage bags or bottles, squeeze it out and store it in the refrigerator at 3°C ​​for a day without any problem.

Baby bottle cleaner: It is best to wash it once a day and disinfect it after washing. We use an induction cooker to boil water for 5-6 minutes. There are also steam sterilizers for baby bottles.

Diapers: NB specifications for newborns, available in weights 0-5KG. You can stock up on a few packs if you have events. I have bought two brands, the average price is 0.7 yuan per piece, and the baby's bottom is not red. When I was discharged from the hospital, my baby's buttocks were red. I used our local method to apply some tea oil on it for two days and it was fine.

Baby wipes: Wet wipes are not recommended in winter because they are relatively cold, otherwise you will have to buy a heater. It is recommended to use paper towels, which do not deform when exposed to water. You can wipe your mouth after feeding. A new year cloth can be used to wipe your buttocks with hot water. It is very useful.

Book: the most basic one, and The most comprehensive book, you can learn a lot of knowledge, answer a lot of questions, and reduce a lot of unnecessary worries.

Crib and bed bumper: It is not necessary at first. The baby and mother sleep in a large bed, which is convenient for care. At the same time, the baby can be comforted in time when he wakes up. Just leave enough space. I tried to let the baby sleep alone after 15 days of birth, and the result was that he could sleep well.Be practical.

Milk powder and breast milk fortifier: Due to premature birth, the doctor ordered in the discharge record to take these It will take a while to catch up with the weight, but you cannot eat both at the same time. You must either take breast milk plus fortifiers, or just take milk powder alone.

The above are all good introductions after using them. Let me tell you, we watched it for a long time and compared it a lot when we were preparing. I hope it can give you some reference. Finally, let me tell you why I am so glad that I heard the doctor’s advice and had a fetal monitor at 35 weeks and found out the fetus. There was a brief period of hypoxia, but it soon became normal. The doctor recommended that we be hospitalized for observation at that time, because we had already been admitted to the hospital once at 32 weeks ago, and we had to be admitted again two weeks later. My parents were a little reluctant and felt that we should be hospitalized for various examinations. They were struggling and not sleeping well. They couldn't be more comfortable at home. They just wanted to eat well and sleep well at home. This was their idea. At that time, they decided to go to the hospital for insurance reasons. My parents didn't understand, so I didn't understand. Asking for leave to escort meals

I share this experience with you mainly because I want to tell you: God has given us life, and we embrace it with dedication (Tagore). Full-term and normal delivery That is the happiest, but 20%-30% are premature births or caesarean sections, and they have to go through more things. The only thing we can do is to adjust our mentality, comfort our wives, withstand the pressure, and talk to our best friends. Take it easy, listen to the doctor's advice, and don't make irrational decisions. If you encounter this situation, believe me, everything will be fine. Medicine is very advanced now. Also, the older generation in the family can use their ideas. Just take it as a reference. This is your wife and your child. You can make your own decision about painless delivery or cesarean section. Just listen to the doctor's advice and believe in medicine, regardless of whether they agree or not.