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In the comments, someone quoted that six major organizations including the WHO, the American Academy of Pediatrics, the British National Health Service, the Japanese Ministry of Health and Welfare, the Hong Kong Regional Department of Health, and the Taiwan National Health Service all recommended that babies with milk allergy and lactose intolerance be excluded. Highlight: "In addition to milk allergy and lactose intolerance"
Quite right! Let's see how many of us have no adverse reactions to milk. The British "NATURE" article is as follows
Ignore your own body constitution and the risks of fresh milk source, storage, and transportation and blindly give it to your children. Drinking fresh milk is completely irresponsible. Chatting with me will not change the DNA of our race. Please respect yourself!
Tell me about an experience that is not considered experience:
Before the child is born, it is basically determined that he cannot drink ordinary milk powder based on his body constitution, so he locks in semi-hydrolyzed milk powder in advance. After the child is born, the hospital provides formula milk uniformly, and parents are not allowed to bring their own milk powder. The purpose is to reduce hospital risks and provide children with rations for mothers with insufficient milk supply. It must be emphasized here that it is completely voluntary to receive. Those who have breast milk can breastfeed on their own. People who like to criticize and blindly resist formula milk should not be black and white.
During that time in the hospital, erythema appeared every time after the child ate the hospital formula milk. It was basically confirmed that he had an allergic reaction to ordinary formula milk (the lack of obvious physical reaction does not mean that he is not allergic, there is a case in the article). After returning home, erythema will not appear if you eat semi-hydrolyzed milk powder, so insist on letting your child eat semi-hydrolyzed formula milk powder.
After one and a half years old, as the child started to eat other foods, he gradually began to try ordinary formula milk powder and entered the adaptation process. After 2 years of age, the baby is completely switched to regular formula milk. During this period, the company will distribute some pure milk and let the children try it. However, if the children judge from their appetite, stool and other physical signs that they cannot drink pure milk, they will give less pure milk to the children.
A child's growth and development is a step-by-step process. Some of the loudest commenters started giving their children fresh milk at the age of one, advocating how to use fresh milk. I have no objection, but please feed your children scientifically according to their own constitution! To put it bluntly, you didn’t take your child to the hospital for testing, so how can you say that your child can absorb fresh milk? Even if there are no adverse reactions, it is just that the body is still healthy and the resistance is enough to suppress allergic reactions, not how correct the parents are. And I believe more in the results of scientific statistics and analysis.
To give another simple example, when you are in a bad state and your immunity is low, exposure to some allergens may cause severe allergic signs. However, if you exercise regularly and are in good health, you may be fine if you sneeze, but it cannot be said that he is not allergic. allergy! Allergies cannot be changed. Please pay more attention to your child according to the actual situation, because the child cannot fully use language to accurately reflect his situation at that time, rather than a publicTell me a guideline that will take it all!
Foreword
The header picture is an artistic photo taken about a hundred days ago of my twins. Every time I see this With an innocent smile, no matter how hard or tired she is, she will always devote herself to her children without any complaints. Four years have passed in the blink of an eye, and it feels like I have passed the first level of the game "life" with my children. The theme of the first level is relatively simple: eat, drink, poop and sleep!
I also shared my parenting experience some time ago, but I mainly included some good things. But the journey along the way has not been smooth sailing. It has been a process of crossing the river by feeling for the stones, and I have also encountered various misunderstandings. I would like to remind you here.
Please see past sharing:
Eat
Eating is the first priority, and I believe that all parents attach great importance to it. Whether their beloved ones eat more or less affects their parents' nerves. Let’s talk about all aspects of food first
Milk powder
Breastfeeding is recommended before one year old! (Political correctness is very important!) But if breast milk is not enough, you can choose milk powder according to the child's physical condition. I believe that many parents choose well-known brands, only focus on the brand, and focus on the so-called special ingredients, while ignoring the real needs of their children.
Special formula milk powder in foreign countries includes: anti-vomiting, semi-hydrolyzed, fully hydrolyzed, anti-allergic, premature baby, etc. Please choose according to your child's constitution. Observe your children more because they fail to express their feelings accurately using language, body movements and expressions.
Example:
1. A colleague's child had a rash on his buttocks when he was 2 years old, and the diapers he used cost Kao 2 yuan a piece. pants, but it still got worse and worse, and finally there were red rashes all over my face and body. I have reminded the child that his father may be allergic to protein, but he has never heard of semi-hydrolyzed or fully hydrolyzed milk powder, and insists on using a certain big-name ordinary milk powder shipped back from Hong Kong. Eating from the regular milk powder to the platinum version did not help. The final test results showed that since the allergens had accumulated to a certain amount and were difficult to return, the only option was to stop the regular milk powder immediately and start eating fully hydrolyzed milk powder directly. 400 more than 400g, not only expensive, but also cheapIt's so delicious that the child becomes a tack like Lu Yu.
2. Don’t think that it’s okay if you don’t have any signs of allergies. A child in the same community who is 3 months older than my child was half a head shorter than my child when he was 2 years old. His dad is half a head taller than me. The child has smooth and smooth skin and is very handsome, but he is short and thin. In the end, I also determined that I was allergic to protein. I took the fully hydrolyzed protein for half a year and then switched to semi-hydrolyzed protein.
I personally recommend that adults make a self-assessment before choosing milk powder for their children. If you are allergic and have diarrhea on the day you drink pure milk, stock up on semi-hydrolyzed milk powder. Ask your doctor for more advice.
Rice noodles/complementary food
Many elderly people with children love to compete with each other in the community, and some even brag, turning their grandchildren into little supermen. I was also deeply affected by this. When my parents came back, they asked about other people's grandchildren. Which family's children only had a bowl of rice when they were 1 year old. . . . . .
Relying on the elderly to raise children, in addition to compromise, there is also the hope that through scientific indoctrination, one thing can be changed. I stocked up on some rice cereal, but the child didn’t like it, but the grandparents were worried that the child would lose at the starting line. Every time they “fed” rice cereal, it was miserable.
My personal suggestion is not to pull the seedlings to encourage them to grow. Don’t worry that they are not full or nutritious. The formula milk is enough. What’s the problem if you eat complementary food later?
Eating habits
In our generation, ordinary families must rely on their parents to help take care of their children in order to support the family. However, many bad habits are gradually influenced by the children.
When you grow up, you need to be able to control your fingers to do some complicated things, and you need to be trained to eat by yourself. Grandparents will feel that the child is very dirty when eating and drinking porridge, and they will take the initiative to feed the child. Even if the child is playful, he will play with the grandparents. Hello. This is not conducive to the development of correct eating habits. Who do you expect to feed the child in the future?
1 My children are more than one year old, and I have cultivated the habit of eating by themselves. Every time I am at home, I insist on letting the children eat by themselves. However, when I am not at home, my grandparents chase them with bowls and see this happen several times. When the children saw me, they immediately moved to the small table to eat by themselves. I had to complain: The children knew the rules but the adults didn’t. Today, the child is 4 years old, and I still occasionally find that my grandfather is trying to save trouble by asking the child to finish the meal as soon as possible so that he can wash the dishes and take the initiative to feed the child.
2. My cousin’s child is about a month older than mine, over 4 years old. At family gatherings, adults still need to feed them, but my two children can sit quietly and eat by themselves. The contrast is sharp.
Drink
Drinking and eating are inseparable. Be sure to believe in science, not half-heartedness! < /p>
At present, the children are over four years old, and they are still given formula milk and a bottle of formula milk in the morning. The purpose is to ensure nutrition, not Blindly supplementing fish oil and calcium. It cannot be said that one bottle of formula milk is enough for a day, but the nutritional content is not comparable to that of fresh milk! I believe that drinking fresh milk will not cause any problems, but is it really suitable to drink fresh milk after 1 year old?
Pull
I am not very experienced in children's poop, because my two children eat, drink and play at the same time, but the individual differences are very big! My brother eats more food than his younger brother A little less. I tried not to have a bowel movement for 3 days. Even after taking probiotics, my weight remained one to two pounds heavier than my younger brother. My younger brother ate more, but also pooped more quickly, and his weight never improved. My brother is heavy.
In order to change his living habits and let the child develop a bowel movement in the morning and evening, the brother only has a bowel movement once in a while and the amount is small. Adjustments have been made, but the two brothers have never been able to agree on the problem of defecation.
Reluctantly summed up the so-called experience: the child's biological clock must be guided from the living habits, just get used to it. Sometimes it feels like pulling less but absorbing more seems to be more in line with the current economic benefits
Sa
I believe that many parents have experienced pooping and peeing for their children. The purpose is to let the children cut off diapers as soon as possible and to pee can save money on diapers. Therefore, they interrupt the baby's sleep in the middle of the night to pee for the baby. , and it’s worth it. And more parenting experts call for letting nature take its course and letting the baby leave diapers naturally when they grow up.
On the other hand, "pull a lot of children." "Grandmas and grandmothers, on one side are the new parents and new mothers who have "read a lot of parenting articles", and in the middle are little babies who don't know anything. The old people said, "This is how I brought my children. There's no problem." The mothers said, "Experts have said that you can't just urinate and poop, and your children will understand when they get older." The opinions of both parties are highly inconsistent, and the conflict continues to escalate. No one can convince the other.
< p itemprop="description">I prefer the latter, so I have stocked up on diapers. There are still about 200 diapers under the bed. Although the child seems to be weaning off diapers later than other children, there seems to be nothing wrong. < /p>Here is an excerpt of Cui Yutao's views from Internet celebrity parenting expert:
Core point of view: It is against defecation and defecation, and it is recommended to use diapers or diapers , wait until the child matures and parents take advantage of the situation to form a bowel habit.
It is not a good thing to pee the baby, which is not conducive to the development of the baby's hip joints. It is also easy to cause anal prolapse, anal fissure and other phenomena in babies.Children around 1 and a half years old will gradually develop the awareness of urinating on their own. At that time, it will be easy to form a urinating habit and give up diapers by taking advantage of the situation. Some people worry that using diapers for a long time may affect the child's fertility. In fact, they have been used abroad for decades and this phenomenon has not been found.
Using the baby frequently will cause urination too frequently, which is not a good habit for the baby and is not good for the maturation of bladder function. Saving a few diapers should not be done at the expense of the baby's health. cost. Today I saw a 3-and-a-half-month-old baby. Due to frequent defecation every day and controlled defecation 4 times a day (formula feeding), the purpose was to prevent the buttock skin from being irritated and damaged by stool, and to prevent getting angry, constipation, etc. As a result, two obvious lines appeared in the anus. Fissure – anal fissure.
Pooping itself will cause the child to exert excessive force, causing the mucosa in the anus to protrude, commonly known as prolapse, which is actually hemorrhoids. Why do you have to poop for your child? The baby can urinate and urinate into the diaper on his own. After urinating, clean the buttocks and change the diaper. Even if you don't use diapers, you can still use cloth diapers. It will start to defecate on its own around the age of 2. We hope that parents will respect their children and do not force them to defecate according to their own wishes.
Sleep
In many parenting guides, children’s sleep is also an important part . Most of the views are that children can secrete growth hormone when they sleep, and they will grow faster if they sleep well
When your children cry when they are young, don't report yourself to sleep, as the children will learn it in no time. Bad, you will only ask for trouble in the future: When the children and my wife were in the hospital, I took care of them for the first three nights. It was more efficient for me to take care of two children by myself than others who took care of one. I fed them every three hours on a regular basis, and I didn’t wait for the children to be hungry. If he wakes up crying, feed him and go back to sleep. But I couldn't bear it on the fourth night, so I asked my parents to bear the burden for one night. The next day, they told me that I was tired after holding my brother for one night, and I knew it was over. . . . . What follows is a long process of correction. Because my brother knows that being held is not only comfortable but also provides a sense of security, so he has been very clingy since he was a child.
Another sleeping misconception is pillows
Don’t be fooled by promotional pictures Got it! ! ! This kind of pillow has a concave center, so if a child turns over and his face happens to sink into it, it is easy for him to suffocate. If you want your child's head to be round, parents must move their child's head frequently.
In order to cultivate children's sleeping habits, I purchased Fisher-Price's Musical Seahorse, but in actual use, my children did not like it and even resisted it.
Based on the soothing principle of seahorses, I bought a remote-controlled night light, which creates a warm background light in the distance. I downloaded the soft light on my mobile phone. The music plays on a loop until the child falls asleep. The child is now 4 years old and has good habits. After listening to his favorite Disney movie theme songs, he will actively ask to listen to "sleep songs" to enter sleep mode
End of article
For more than a thousand days and nights in 4 years, parents have a really great influence on their children. Although they usually need to go to work, they don’t have to go to work after get off work. Finally, we need to do our best to impart correct habits and cultivate children's independent character. As the saying goes, 80 is determined by the age of 3. These critical 3 years will leave precious life experiences for children. Children are working so hard to grow up. As a parent, what reason do you have not to be a competent parent? Let’s encourage each other!
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